The enemy is the woman. Or as Van Gulik explains, "The man should defeat the enemy in the sexual battle by keeping himself under complete control so as to not emit semen while exciting the woman till she reaches orgasm and sheds her yin essence which is then absorbed by the man." This is the art of victory on the battlefield.
All's fair in love and war takes a whole different meaning here.
So I was browsing blogs and brutalturtle has a post dedicated to his 10 preferred girlfriend traits...and for fun, why not? I hope these don't across as being superficial.
1) Patience.
Reason: I have a personality of a five year old when I'm tired...and when I'm awake...lol I get stressed and upset easily. I like pillow talking for a long (very long) time. When shopping I can spend hours in one store. Basically my boyfriend has to be patient or he can't date me because he would get frustrated too fast haha.
2) Mature personality.
Reason: I once dated a guy (for a very short time) who was younger than me. I'm an immature person myself, yet I felt like his mother. It's just not attractive.
3) A like of discussion.
Reason: I like talking - about anything really and what I like is having someone who corresponds to me. I don't like talking to brick walls.
4) Nice soft skin.
Reason: I have far from perfect skin, but I remember I didn't like my face to touch my ex boyfriends face because I swear if his cheek touched mine I would get pimples. lol! Enough said!...hahah ok but seriously, I could lie in bed just stroking the face of a guy with soft smooth facial skin.
5) Reasonable height (I'm thinking 180cms+?)
Reason: I don't want to be taller than my guy when I'm wearing heels.
6) Likes to eat.
Reason: I don't diet, I eat continuously. I'll eat those noodles with the fried cubes of lard on it! and if the noodles don't have the fried cubes of lard I will request for some to the waiter! jk lol I remember meeting this guy who had a great personality and was pretty cute, his biggest turn off was when we went out to dinner and after we had finished he made a comment about how he was worried about the amount of calories he just gained.... are you kidding me?! needless to say we never ate together again.
7) Has a sense of style.
Reason: I like to look nice, and I just think it would be nice if my partner did too. One thing that is sexy about J is that even on the days when all he wants to do is lie around the house, he still looks good in his grey Nike training clothes.
8) Isn't a stick.
Reason: I see so many Asian guys who are so so skinny. It just freaks me out. I like my man to have broad shoulders and some leg muscle.
9) Isn't totally egotistic.
Reason: The world doesn't and will never revolve around you. I can't stand guys who put down other people.
10) Has nice hair and shoes.
Reason: To me, having your hair done right and wearing a good pair of shoes can just pull together your entire outfit. I guess this can fall under my want of a sense of style, but I like my guy to look put together.
But at the end of the day personality is the most important and if a personality just clicks with mine then this list has no meaning ha.
I like this better than the original...seriously, I just replayed it three times...
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I was browsing blogs devoted to weddings...and ohohohoh oh my gosh.... haha I'm having CJS on the soles of my shoes and J can have OJM on his.
The shot with the balloons is just so cute.
I nearly fainted when I saw this. I love this look. The slight feathered detail at the top, hugging her body in all the right ways and then flaring out yet still having a crisp freshness. She hasn't been cluttered with accessories...and her hair is just so simple...thats how I want it.
Ok well thats all for now. I think I'm going to go make myself a tea and eat some dark chocolate.
lovelove.
3 comments:
finally some pictures of you!!!!! I said you were pretty, why do I have to wait months for you to show us all something T_T
I saw the korea pictures! Very nice!!! Very pretty. Going around korea is tough if you don't know a korean, english is totally non-existent. It's even worse than Japan I think~
I liked this list!! I agree with everything, I'm surprised you gave a younger guy a chance. Most girls wouldn't do that :S I guess you have no brothers because: if you had a younger one it would be like dating him. If you had an older one you would never date a younger guy as it seems creepy.
#4 is hard though, guys don't care about skin as much as girls normally. I don't think I could ever meet this criteria lol.
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ohhh I'm sorry haha but I think I'll be posting more often nowadays because exam period is coming and I like to procrastinate haha...
Yeah...there wasn't much English. Even in Lotte world I asked a lady who worked there for directions and she wasn't very good..(but I think I gave her a cheap thrill of practicing her english because she was really really happy) - in the end I just asked J to do it because well...he's korean lol :P
If you go to cafe's or western restuarants then there will def be english...but if you want to eat korean food there arent any english menus.
you like the list?? haha cool, thanks for putting up one yourself because if you didnt I would never of done it haha.
I do have an older brother :) I wouldnt date ayone older than him because well, I think that's creepy :P haha...
oh u can fit number 6..the eating one :P
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